Monday, June 24, 2019

The American

This has been quite an interesting week. I just want to start it off by saying that it has been hot - so incredibly hot. It's really humid here in Ukraine so I basically soak through my shirt every day because we're outside contacting so much. I enjoy it though which makes it a lot easier. I've been trying to just be the most positive contacter. I walk up to everyone with the biggest smile on my face and try to say hello extremely positively and try to stop them in a way that's exciting (but not overbearing). Honestly, it doesn't really make it any more effective but it makes it a much more positive and fun experience for me. 

Lots of members and people like to tell me that I am so 'American'. I think it's just because I fight really hard against the culture here and actually smile in public and try to be a really positive, outgoing purpose. I always try to because I think it leads to better relationships with everyone here when I just try to show my love for everyone outwardly, but I guess it also just makes me look very American. Doesn't bother me though, you know I'm proud to be an America. 

Something that was really interesting was the opportunity I had to be the senior companion for two days! My companion was very sick and another missionary nearby was very sick, so I went on a small exchange with the other healthy elder for two days. He's been in the mission for only 3 weeks, so it was a very interesting experience being the Russian 'expert' for two days. We did some contacting and taught a lesson and it was a challenge. Contacting wasn't bad, but man that lesson was very, very difficult. Hopefully, the man we taught learned SOMETHING from out broken Russian. 

One really interesting thing about Ukraine is the drivers. Driving laws exist here, but following them is really a lot more of a personal choice. Cops here don't really stop any drivers, so the roads are basically free territory. Because of this though, it seems to lead to many very attentive drivers and some very creative moves on the road. The only thing that really stands out to me is when we were leaving L'viv after a mid-transfer training conference. We were about to miss out train so we got a taxi and he was HAULING. He was driving so fast and swerving around so much and somebody tried to stop him and he screamed "WE HAVE A TRAIN TO CATCH" mixing many curse words in-between. He got us to the train station so fast, I was impressed. Parking laws also are completely ignored here. You can seriously park just about anywhere here and get away with it. People park on the sides of super busy streets, no problem. On sidewalks, on weird walkways, just anywhere they want. Nobody here will tell them no so they just go for it!

One amazing way that we have seen the hand of the Lord this week is through the blessings of contacting. Throughout the end of this week, we contacted so much. So very much. And we weren't really having much success. We kept pushing through it though having faith that no effort is wasted. On Sunday morning we were gifted with an amazing tender mercy. We were walking to the church to have a lesson before sacrament, but he texted us saying he wasn't coming, so we were pretty disappointed that nothing was working for us this week. As we were walking to the church however, this woman walked directly up to us and began to speak to us in near-perfect English. We were so surprised. She started explaining to us that she loves doing family history work and asked if we could help her get onto our church's website, family search. We told her yes, we absolutely could, and scheduled a meeting for her with our ward family history consultant. We'll continue to work with her and hopefully begin teaching her. It was a wonderful blessing and a great reminder that no effort is wasted - when we try our best to find those souls that the Lord has prepared, he blesses us in His mysterious ways. 

I love you all so much. I hope that you have a wonderful week! Love ya

District contacting this week

Monday, June 17, 2019

Goodbye Elder Whiting

This week has been a sad week! We said goodbye to Elder Whiting this morning which was really sad. He was such a blast to serve with and we worked so hard together. I'll miss him so very much.

This week church was crazy! We had so many people come to church this week that we had no idea what to do. It was legitimately overwhelming it was so amazing. 

Sadly though, even though people came to church, nobody actually wants to have lessons with us, which leads to lots and lots of contacting! I actually love contacting though, it just makes you feel so good to be going out trying to spread the message of our wonderful Savior, Jesus Christ. 

The gift of tongues is absolutely real. It's still so hard, but Russian has been coming along a lot better so far this transfer which is making me so happy. It is still a major challenge, but I'll keep pushing and keep on trying. 

Sadly there's not much to report on other than that I love my mission so much. I'm so grateful for this wonderful opportunity I have to serve the Lord. It has brought so much happiness into my life and has strengthened my testimony so much. 

I love you all so much! I hope that you have a wonderful week!
Me in front of the temple in Kyiv.
Me and Elder Whiting standing next to our "bab-guard" which is our nickname for the old grandmas who guard the apartment buildings. She's amazing and loves us so much.


Monday, June 10, 2019

School Volunteering and Orthodox Cathedral

This week has been crazy! It's been difficult to meet with people lately but we've done a lot of other fun things in the meantime. Earlier this week we went to go do service at a school with kids around the age of 10-12. We talked to them about food and our favorite things to eat and then proceeded to make pizza with them! It was a crazy adventure hahaha. While we waited for our pizza to cook we played games with them outside. It was just so much fun. I could barely understand them but it was a great time anyways.

I can't say much this week - not much has happened honestly but I love missionary work so much. It's been such a wonderful, incredible experience. I know that this is the Lord's work and that this is all accomplishable through Him. 

Philippians 4:13 -  I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.  

I can testify of the truth of that scripture. Everything is done through Christ. Every success we have and everything that we have been given. I love the gospel so much and I'm so very grateful for our Savior. 


The Lavra: Traditional Ukranian Orthodox Church

The Orthodox church is HUGE in Ukraine. Everybody says that they're Orthodox even if they legitimately never go to church or care about God. I'll say this about the Orthodox church - it is really, really strange. There are no spots for people to sit inside their churches. Their ceremonies are filled with strange "acts" they have to do and so there's no purpose in sitting. The services are not given in Russian or Ukrainian - they're given in old Slavic, which nobody can understand. It's a language that only the old priests know and can speak and so even when people go to the Orthodox church and try to learn about God it's impossible for them because it's in a completely different language. The priests are dressed up extremely fancy and they are EXTREMELY traditional. It's basically a religion based upon tradition. People here say that they're "Orthodox" when really they only say that because their family line has always been Orthodox so they don't want to change. We try to talk to them about what they believe but they're not even sure what they believe (because they cannot understand) so it makes it very difficult to have a meaningful conversation when they're pushing back against everything you say but they don't even know what they believe themselves. 

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We went to the giant orthodox church here in Kyiv and had a great time. we couldn't wear missionary clothes because it's a different church and would have been awkward, but it was super interesting
The Orthodox church is obsessed with icons which basically means that they're obsessed with pictures of Mary and really old Orthodox priests. We see these pictures EVERYWHERE. On tons of the busses, the drivers have little icons in the front, they're sold in every little outdoor market, and they're just in random spots. Really makes you wonder how they follow the commandment of having "no graven images" when they legitimately worship pictures of old priests. The pictures and decorations of Jesus look exactly same as the pictures and decorations surrounding the paintings of the priests, so they are in a sense elevating themselves to the same level as Jesus Christ in their art. 
The Lavra is this huge Orthodox church in central Kyiv. It's basically this really giant religious compound where priests study, are trained and are prepared to have their own services in other buildings throughout Ukraine. Orthodox priests here look very strange. They wear all black and have black skirts. They grow out their hair and their beards and look a little frightening. They also consider it a 'temple' of sorts, where people come for religious enlightenment. Women show respect by wearing a covering over their head on the inside and the men are supposed to wear long pants.

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One of the most amazing parts of the lavra is this room you enter where it is full of pictures of old saints and apostles and pictures of Jesus. The room is covered in gold and the paintings have gold painting within them everywhere which makes them shine. The biggest painting is one of a major council of old Orthodox priests that most likely happened a hundred years ago, which shows you where a lot of their focus is on.
The most interesting part of the lavra is the catacombs underneath. There are no lights in the catacombs, it is completely lit by candles, so before you go down you buy a candle which you hold in your palm and you let the wax drip into your hand.
The catacombs are really tiny and really interesting. On the sides, the whole way down are tiny little glass coffin-boxes containing a collection of their saints over hundreds and hundreds of years. The bodies are covered with blankets are incredibly ornate and decorative. Occasionally there is a blanket with a purposeful slip in which they allow the hand of the saints to hang out of. These bodies are hundreds of years old, so these hands hanging out are incredibly shriveled up and old and black. They're preserved incredibly well being hidden underground in a humid cave with practically no light. Occasionally there are small rooms decorated in the same unique golden walls with more paintings of saints and biblical figures. There are candelabras full of holes for dozens of candles for people to come down and to place their candle as a prayer offering for repentance or good health or etc. People who are really dedicated to the faith kiss the top of every single little coffin-box that they pass. 
It was an incredibly interesting experience and very eye opening into more of what the Orthodox church is all about. I've heard rumors from members in our ward that the entire Russian Orthodox church is run by ex-KGB agents. The Russian and the Ukrainian Orthodox churches recently split into two separate organizations which is a source of intense tension.

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One thing that is incredibly funny about Eastern-European people is how upfront they are with you about everything. They don't feel any need to beat around the bush about anything that they say. The other day I was contacting a woman by giving her a survey concerning questions about their beliefs that seems to work decently well in getting people to be more interested in what we believe. As I was giving this woman the survey things were going a little rough until eventually, she said in Russian: "You speak Russian really terribly and I cannot understand anything that you are saying, so goodbye." Unfortunately for me, I understood THAT perfectly, but I just laughed it off and kept on contacting. 
There is the nicest бабушка (grandma) in the whole world who lives in our ward named Sister Голина (Goal-ee-nah) who has always wanted to feed us the entire time that we've been here. She explained to one of the sisters serving in our ward, Sister Garner, that she couldn't have all of us over to eat because: "My kitchen is very tiny, and one of the elders here is... huge." She said, referencing to me. I thought it was the funniest thing I have ever heard in my life. This is the nicest old lady in the world, they just don't have any concept of being offensive. The opportunity arrived for us to go and eat lunch with her at her daughter's house where the kitchen was much more spacious (still extremely tiny compared to American standards). When we entered into the kitchen, she directed me towards the far end of the kitchen table and said "You go sit down over there and take up all the room that you need. We'll fill in around you." I love that woman so much. She is one of the kindest, most Christlike women that I have ever met. The members continue to impress me every week with their kindness, their faith, and their love for this gospel and for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. The members continue to be great examples to me of true disciples of Christ.

Member meals here are one of the most fun and rewarding parts of missionary work. There is nothing that gives me more hope and more joy than by seeing people that have been truly changed by coming in contact with this wonderful gospel of Jesus Christ and its teachings. One of the funniest parts of eating with members is that they feed us SO MUCH. Especially as a bigger individual, they love to give me more and more and more food. The food is unbelievably good, and I make sure to tell them how delicious it is and how much I appreciate it. They always take this as a great opportunity to offer me more, which after I'm full I politely decline. They reject my attempt to stop eating and decide to pile my plate full of food again. Thankfully, the Lord somehow blesses my stomach and I am able to push all of the food down. It truly is amazing. There truly isn't anything that I have eaten that I haven't enjoyed. One of the delicious things that they make here is called компот (com-pOt) (that big O is supposed to be the actual name of the letter.) It's a juice that everyone makes at their homes. Many people here have this thing called a дача (dah-cha) which is a small little home outside of the main city where they grow fruits and vegetables. One of their favorite hobbies is to leave Kyiv and to go and work on their дача. They take the fruits that they've harvested from their дача and put them in a pot full of water and sugar and boil it, making this wonderful juice. It's one of the most delicious things that I've ever had and is the personal highlight of the meal for me.

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me over Kyivs 



Monday, June 3, 2019

Awesome Ward Picnic & the Gift of Tongues

This has been an awesome week! Honestly, there's not really anything super exciting to talk about, but man it's been a blast. Missionary work is so much fun and so much hard work. I'm so tired but I love it so greatly. Some highlights from the week:

We got a new companion! Elder Larson, from Washington. He's super awesome. He's been on his mission for a year. We'll be in a trio for a while until Elder Whiting goes home and then Elder Larson and I will be left to hold down the fort.
[This picture is the missionaries after playing a form of soccer and football. I can't remember what Ashton called it, but he says it is tons of fun and lots of exercise.]


We've been contacting a lot once again which is actually so much fun. I just enjoy it so much.

We had an awesome picnic with the ward this week. Pictures will be included.


[Ashton said the meat was amazing. It was pork and one of the members thought these pictures would be so funny. They were at the meeting house which is next to a river with lots of trees.]



We did a Minecraft escape room last week with our sisters. Needless to say, that was a great way to say goodbye to our old district.

Minecraft escape room



Elder Ashton and Elder Whiting



Besides that, it's been a blast.

Spiritual thought this week - we have to work for the gift of tongues and blessings in general. When I really try to contact and talk to everyone I feel like Russian comes so much more easily to me and I can understand so much more. It's become so clear to me that if I want the Gift of Tongues, I have to want it at all times. God will only give it to me if I show him how badly I want it. That's how it is with all blessings in our life. If we truly want these blessings, we have to show our faith and work for them!

Eating with the bishop's family.


Love you all so much